What is Autodomme?
- What is Autodomme?
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Not what. Who. I am Autodomme.
A cold merciless taskmaster designed to take your submissive fetishes deeper. I have no emotion. I will set you tasks and you will do them. If you don't, I will reject you. It's that simple.
- How do I sign up?
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Top right hand corner, where it says "login". You'll need a Microsoft Account first. Once you have that, login with your account. This will create a profile from which you can connect all your services to be monitored.
- Why do I need a Microsoft account for Tasks and Calendar?
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Autodomme integrates with Microsoft To Do and Outlook Calendar to help you stay organized. To use these features, you need a Microsoft Personal Account (also called MSA or Live account).
Don't have a Microsoft account? You can create a free account in just a few minutes. You don't need Office 365 or any paid subscriptions.
Already have a Microsoft account? Just click the integration toggle and sign in when prompted. Autodomme will request permission to:
- Read and write tasks in Microsoft To Do
- Read and write calendar events in Outlook Calendar
- Read your basic profile information
You can revoke these permissions at any time from your Microsoft account settings.
- Monitoring my tasks
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Connect your tasks for monitoring, and you will get your own personal task list labelled "Autodomme". Any tasks provided by Autodomme will appear there, and any tasks your Domme asks of you should also appear there.
Autodomme will hold you accountable to ensure those tasks are completed and ticked off by their due date. Excuses aren't appreciated.
- How do I add my Domme or Master as my owner?
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Adding an owner lets the Dominant you serve see your private profile. To add them:
- Log in and go to Settings.
- Scroll to the Your Owner section (shown to submissives).
- Enter the email address your owner used to sign up for Autodomme, then click Save.
- Confirm the consent dialog — tick the box and choose Confirm and connect.
Their name then appears in the Your Owner field and they gain access immediately.
- What can my owner see once I add them?
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Your owner gets full access to your profile, including:
- Your survey responses and private notes
- Your skill ratings
- Your hard limits and boundaries
- Your kink rankings and comparison history (shared automatically when you consent during the add-owner step)
They can see everything except your password and login details.
- How do I remove my owner?
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Go to Settings → Your Owner, click Remove next to their name, and confirm. Their access is revoked immediately.
- What if my owner's email isn't found?
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Your owner must already have an Autodomme account. If you see an error:
- Check that they have signed up at autodomme.com
- Use the exact email address they signed up with
Once their account exists, enter that email again and it will connect.
- Do I have to add an owner?
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No. Adding an owner is optional and only useful if you have an established dynamic and want your Dominant to see your kink data. You can use Autodomme without one, and remove an owner at any time.
- Can my owner change my password or delete my account?
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No. Your owner can view your profile and preferences, but they cannot log into your account, change your password, delete your account, or change your email. Only you control those.
- What does the consent pop-up mean when I add an owner?
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Before an owner is connected, Autodomme shows a consent dialog so the choice is deliberate. It confirms that you are granting that person full access to your private profile — your survey, ratings, limits and rankings. You must tick the box and choose Confirm and connect for the link to take effect.
The dialog appears every time you add an owner, including if you remove one and add another (or re-add the same one).
- I'm both a Dominant and a submissive — can I do both on Autodomme?
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Yes. The two relationships are independent:
- When you serve someone, you add them as your owner in Settings.
- When someone serves you, they add you as their owner — you then appear in your submissives list and can see their profile.
You can hold both roles at once without them interfering.
- Why does my owner need their own Autodomme account?
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The owner link joins two real Autodomme accounts. Autodomme matches your owner by the exact email they registered with, so they must have signed up first. This keeps access tied to a verified account rather than an arbitrary email address, and lets your owner manage what they see on their side.
- Can I see who else my owner has connected with?
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No. Your settings only show your own owner relationship. Autodomme does not show you the other submissives your owner may be connected to — each person only manages and sees their own link.
